We honor people, not by becoming them, but seeing them. 

I didn’t even know the word pétanque before moving to France. I watched my new family throw the silver balls into the hardened sand. They pointed and laughed and questioned. They shook their heads and raised their hands, not out of strategy, but out of love. This was all I needed. We don’t have to love the same things, we just have to see that we are capable of loving. 

Instead of picking up a ball, I picked up a brush — because this is what I love. We show each other in the best ways we can.

I googled Juneteenth this morning. I was surprised at the questions that popped up. People were asking, do we celebrate? How do we celebrate? What do we say? I don’t have the answers, but I think we simply start by seeing each other. Sharing our gifts, our love, in the best ways that we can. I love to paint. I am free to paint. What a glorious gift it is to be free. This is for everyone. To be seen. Everyone. To give love. Every. One. To. Be. Loved. So I pick up my brush, not out of strategy, but out of love.