I heard of them long before I ever heard of “sea legs.” I could see them at eye level. I put my hands up like a director holding the camera to keep my mother’s legs in constant sight as she danced and weaved through the hangered racks. 

I was near her eye level once we graduated from Herberger’s basement to Dayton’s in Minneapolis — getting into the rhythm of my own “shopping legs.” And never were we more tested than on Black Fridays. Some said the crowds were too much, but not my mother. She saw it as the dance floor being full. Perhaps it was from practicing each weekend in her heels of youth at the Glenwood Lakeside Ballroom. I didn’t always know who was playing in her head. Was it Glen Miller? Tommy Dorsey? But it was something to see. The pulling of the ruffled blouse off the rack. Holding out at arms’ length. The wink of admiration, when yes, it was decided, they were going to dance. 

It’s not just today. There are constant crowds of opposition and misinformation. And some choose to plant their feet. But I was taught to listen. To watch. To sway. To see not the crowd, but the dance. 

The band is playing. My shopping legs are strong.