When I look at the people in one of my sketchbooks, they all look like they belong. The paper becomes part of them. I suppose it’s the same in real life.

If you would have put the first grade class of Washington Elementary in a lineup, I think it would have been rather easy to tell who was growing up on a gravel road. Skinned knees and elbows. Dusty shoes, worn on the heels from braking our bicycles. Eyes in half squint. Just a hint of feral. It was only a mile from town, the gravel of Van Dyke road, but it was different on the north side of Big Ole. I imagined we cursed the gravel while rolling up windows. Kicked the ground that so often tripped us. And perhaps I didn’t see it then, how it formed me, formed us. But I do now.  Proudly. And even a country away, I wear it still. 

We are being formed constantly by our surroundings. There are regulars on the path that I walk each morning. I don’t know them by name, but how they walk on the gravel. It’s only recently that I’ve seen two of them out in the “real” world. One at a green grocery. One at an electronics store. And I had the same feeling for both. It was quite strange, but I noticed how they both looked smaller in this new context. And I can only think that on the gravel path, in this untamed world that we inhabit together, we walk a little taller. We stand strong. We stand out. Without words we take pride in our collective journey. And it makes me smile. 

We can be proud of the paths we walk. Each stone that we have traveled over. Each rock pulled from shoe. They are victories. Don’t hide your journey. Shoulders back. Head high. Walk in it. Stand tall. Wear your gravel well.